Follow the Child By Ananya Pattanaik



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We follow the child when we take time to get to know them(connect).
We follow the child when each day, each week, each month, we sit and observe the child and see what their Human tendencies are (and are not). One of the great discoveries made by Dr. Montessori was that all humans have certain tendencies or behavior patterns. No matter where we live, no matter our culture or ethnicity, we all follow the same natural laws that lead us to act or react in a specific manner. We are all driven to


➜ We follow the child when we take the information our observations supply us with and use it to inform our practice.

➜ We follow the child when we meet them where they are and support them through the following steps in their social, emotional and academic learning.

➜ We follow the child when we watch them, listen to them and guide them in the right direction.

➜ We follow the child not to let them make all of their own choices, solve all of their own problems, and dictate the structure of their day.


“To give a child liberty is not to abandon him to himself.”
Dr.Maria Montessori


Following doesn’t mean watching and doing nothing, it is meant to say that Montessori educators get actual, factual information through relationship building and observation and use it to guide the child’s natural path. This isn’t something a child can decide for themselves - which is why in many Montessori schools, teachers are called guides, which with the right explanation and in the right context, is truly a beautiful way to support a student’s education and describe the role of the teacher.
Many people think of two extremes when asked to describe Montessori - one is that in Montessori school, children are allowed to do “anything” they want. The other is that the teacher stands on the perimeter of the classroom and children must do academic work all day long. Funny enough, neither of these situations sound like they are following any child (and don’t in any way accurately describe a Montessori classroom) - which is why we all need to do the work and understand what we really mean when we say this. The use of relationship building, trust, support and knowledge of the young child is what we want people to know when we say, “follow the child.”

FOLLOWING THE CHILD = OBSERVING THE CHILD= MAKING INFORMED DECISIONS

“Follow the child, they will show you what they need to do, what they need to develop in themselves and what area they need to be challenged in. The aim of the children who persevere in their work with an object is certainly not to ‘learn’; they are drawn to it by the needs of their inner life, which must be recognized and developed by its means.”
Dr. Maria Montessori

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